A wedding is such a special celebration for the bride and groom, their family and friends. If you want to join in—and not stand out for the wrong reasons—you need to get your accessories, dress codes and behavior right depending on the type of wedding. Today we're looking at daytime wedding protocol.
Daytime wedding dress code: how to choose the perfect look
Which colors should you choose according to daytime wedding dress code? What's the role of the bride's sister? How should men dress? Let's answer all your burning questions.
Dresses for a daytime wedding: tips and options
Dress codes are different for daytime weddings compared to evening weddings. And the same goes for a beach wedding vs. a church wedding. First and foremost, you need to respect the bride and grooms' wishes, so if you're not given a specific dress code you should follow the general protocol.
Daytime wedding dress code is short dresses for most guests, leaving floor-length gowns for the maid or matron of honor, bridesmaids, the couple's siblings and witnesses. Of you could go for a long jumpsuit or suit—a chic alternative that's a great match for a daytime wedding.
Choose from shorter options like midi or knee-length dresses, but resist the charms of a cocktail dresses. Daytime weddings call for simpler short dresses, think less festive yet still elegant, and always made from a quality fabric. Pastel colors like blue, mauve or pink are a great choice. You could choose more striking colors but avoid anything too neon: think turquoise, fuchsia or coral, all ideal for summer weddings.
At daytime weddings you should avoid white and anything close to it—like ecru, beige and very pale powdery tones—these are strictly reserved for the bride. And avoid black! It may be a flattering color to wear at parties, but it's not suitable for a daytime wedding, or any wedding really.
If you choose a for a daytime wedding, just remember that the perfect guest always puts simplicity first. Avoid standout silhouettes like mermaid dresses, as well as strapless or plunging necklines. This is especially true for religious weddings when you need to think about the norms: avoid showing off your shoulders or baring your legs in mini-length designs.
Men's daytime wedding protocol: your guide for a winning look
Men also need to get the dress code right for a daytime wedding. It's not the time for a tux. Go for a dark suit combined with a shirt in a light color instead. His shirt should always have a long sleeve. Go for a plain fabric or one with a discreet pattern (think narrow stripes) depending on the man's personal style.
Men's daytime wedding protocol dictates neutrals like navy blue, gray or beige. And the suit needs to look sharp—the hem of the pants should be no longer than the upper of the shoe, and the jacket needs to fit well at the shoulders; if not, it could look shabby.
In terms of accessories, ties are mandatory. Pair them with a pocket square and shirt for a stellar look. Shoes should be a darker tone, and ideally lace-ups like Oxfords or Derbys—they're more elegant.
A suit jacket is mandatory attire for the groom, father of the groom and witnesses at a formal wedding. Add striking cufflinks, ties or pocket squares that complement the wedding decorations for a coordinated look the bride and groom will love.
Daytime wedding hair ornament protocol: when and how to wear yours
Maybe you're a woman who wants to wear a fancy accessory? Read on and find out about daytime wedding hair ornament protocol. Sun hats and larger hair ornaments are more than acceptable for daytime weddings—they're the perfect accessory for an original guest look.
Sun hats are exclusively for daytime weddings, especially in spring and summer. According to protocol, there's no need to take it off at the church ceremony or reception. Feel free to take it off when the dancing begins, but that could be a while, so it's worth taking the time to find something comfortable. You'll wear a hair ornament throughout the whole wedding, so you need to get it right.
Sister of the bride daytime wedding protocol: a key role
The bride's (and groom's) sister has a unique role at a wedding. As one of the main players she can wear a full-length gown, but she still needs to respect the daytime wedding dress code: nothing too casual or too festive.
The sister of the bride could go for an elegant long dress made of a quality fabric such as silk, crêpe or satin; something plain that matches the setting of the wedding.
The bride's sister often has a leading role, reading an emotional speech for the bride and groom. It's not mandatory, but it's a good opportunity to share the special bond that ties them to the couple. She may also act as a witness along with the bridesmaids.
Bridesmaids' daytime wedding protocol: how to dress and act
The bridesmaids tend to be the bride's best friends and close relatives. Protocol dictates there should be no less than two, no more than ten. So the bride needs to choose well! They'll help you with the wedding planning and come along with you on your quest for the perfect dress. And when the big day comes, they'll be there to help you get dressed and get your veil just right.
According to daytime wedding protocol, choosing bridesmaids' dresses is the job of the bride. Traditionally they would all wear the same dress, but it's now more common to see bridesmaids wearing the same color and fabric, but different designs to suit each one's silhouette. These dresses should always be discreet and elegant, keeping all eyes on the bride.
Conclusions: If you want your day to be a success, always follow daytime wedding protocol
And now, you have everything you need to know. Follow this step-by-step guide to attire, accessories and the roles of bridesmaids and sisters, and you're guaranteed an elegant and distinctive wedding: successful, emotional and remembered for all the right reasons.
